Language is our primary medium of communication. It is a great one, with millions of words and phrases and meanings and feelings, it gives us a way to efficiently communicate with each other.
Language is amazing. We all can write whatever we please, and get information across fairly accurately for our purposes.
But there is a flaw in language. One which may never be addressed, and that is perfectly fine. Language requires some set of structure, some sort of rules. This is what we call grammar. Grammar is essential for language, and without the structure that it provides, language will be mere gibberish. But grammar can sometimes limit our thinking.
Grammar is needed, but when trying to express the deepest of feelings, grammar gets in the way. It does not fit what you are trying to say. A very precise, powerful emotion is trying to be communicated. But grammar, being only meant for the very backbone of language, can’t handle such meaning. And grammar is only part of the flaw. It is only a minor one compared to the limits of the words themselves.
The mode of communication which humans converse in is called a language. There are hundreds of languages, and each one has their own lovely quirks and struggles. But language, ideally, is supposed to be just another channel of communication. If you tune to one radio channel, it should work just as well as the next one. But in practice, it is not like that. Different languages, while they work fine in communicating the basic feelings and emotions needed for human survival, say slightly different ideas.
To illustrate this point, consider the phrase “I don’t care”. It is a casual one, and gets the point across that their attention and brain isn’t really focused on the task. The tone of this phrase is a deflective one. Perhaps it may be said when one person is bragging to another, or if someone is highlighting someone else’s achievements. “I don’t care” is a very common phrase, but it has a unique and precise meaning.
I come from a Tamil family. Tamil is the main language spoken in my household. It is a very venerable language, being the oldest surviving one. Like any other language, it has its quirks. When I asked my parents about the Tamil translation of “I don’t care”, they could only come up with an approximation. The precise meaning of their phrase didn’t match the one of “I don’t care”. There probably will never be a phrase in Tamil that will precisely mean “I don’t care”. Even if someone finds a way to introduce a new word, the word will shape out its own meaning.
When a word is introduced, some venerable, trusted organization may announce it. They may formally put it into their dictionaries, and hone their craft to show the meaning of the word. But really, the precise connotation, emotions, tone, and inflection of this word is determined not by these lofty organizations, but by the people who use it. That is, me and you and that person over there. You never really know the true meaning of a word until you hear and use it many times, to get the exact emotions that come with that word.
This is comparable to an artist at work. His palette is filled with many unique colors. Some of them are similar shade, but all of them have a spot on this artist’s palette because they are different. To the untrained eye, it may look like a few colors repeated many times, but the artists knows, after using all the colors many times, he knows the precise difference that the shade of color will have on his painting, the portrayal of his subject, the overall impact to the mood of the painting, and the emotions that are felt while viewing it. Language works the same way. You may have a rudimentary understanding of a language, but to truly gain a powerful insight of it, you have to talk and listen for a very, very long time.
To state it simply, languages are far from perfect. There are various gaps here and there, that don’t quite fit what you are trying to say. Any bilingual person is very familiar to this concept. This is why if you ask them to translate from Russian to English, you aren’t really getting the whole of the text because Russian has some terms that just aren’t there in the English language.
And no language expert can dream of fixing this, either. Languages are shaped in a very peculiar manner, one that is counter-intuitive to normal thinking.
Words were made by us people. People make a language. A language is not governed by one set of individuals. In fact, it is governed by no one at all. Organizations like Merriam-Webster or Britannica only tell us how the language is structured, or the general definition of a word. But a word only gets its meaning from people. People like us shape the meaning and pronunciation of a word.
Let’s say that someone just introduced a new word. They have specified the precise pronunciation and a “precise as possible” definition. This word is announced and people start using it. This word comes in handy for many things, and seems to fill the gap that no one knew was there.
But there were some problems. The first was that half of the people who said the word didn’t say it like it was specified to be said in the dictionary. Is the creator going to enforce some sort of law to say a word that way? Of course not. The other half will eventually assimilate with the popular pronunciation and that will be that. Whether anyone likes it or not, the way that this new word has been said has completely changed!
This has happened in the real world. The word “ration” was actually meant to be pronounced to rhyme with “nation”. But eventually it started being pronounced in a way that rhymed with “fashion”, and that became the norm.
There was another problem with the new word. People weren’t using it how it was supposed to be used! The word organization tries and tries, but no one seems to be using it in the correct way! Well, the meaning and usage of the word has changed as well! No one could do anything about it.
I have also observed this in real life. The definition of “double-whammy” in a dictionary will state that it is a “twofold blow or setback”. Double whammy is a negative term. Yet I have seen many people use the word in a positive and negative ways. No dictionary can do anything about that.
Google was supposed to technically be a noun. Google was a thing, a search engine on the Internet. But it has evolved into a noun and a verb. “Google it” is a common term now!
Language is so beautiful because it is strangely dynamic. It changes with the times, depending on culture, popular things at the time, religion, location, and so much more. This is why some languages have different ideas that other languages: because that location has a need for it.
This is why a language cannot express all emotions. No language can express all of the emotions. They have different ideas, different shifts of the same shade of idea, that prevent us from using language to express our fullest selves.
But, then, what other languages can express emotions? Are there other options we haven’t considered yet?
Language doesn’t have to consist of words. Music is a big choice. Music is not subject to any grammar, rules, or any structure at all. Music can also communicate a wider range of emotions that words can, because music directly influences how we feel. But music has its limits too. Can music strike a precise emotion, where there is no ambiguity? No, because music itself is interpreted a thousand ways.
Body language is another suspect at a precise language. But like music, it is interpreted slightly differently depending on what culture or background the brain has grown in.
There are a million different languages, with words, with numbers, with all that humans have to express. But it seems like we are restricted by the need to comply. Comply with one language at a time. But sometimes one language isn’t enough. A combination of many different languages, of different types, would allow for fuller expression. But that doesn’t happen today. A musician will write music, and nothing else. An author of books will write stories with a written language, and nothing else. But if that author used the power of music somehow, writing and communication would be taken to the next level. The human mind, like an artist creating a piece with multiple mediums, would be able to unleash a new wave of unique and novel emotion in others, if they used more language.